Man listen up.....woman know your feminine power...

Man..listen up!   Women needs to hear, know and trust that you love her..utterly and completely before she can surrender fully to you.  When she surrenders, her flower opens, her petals will open and surround you..and you must be careful...be honouring...  As you would do if you picked a rare flower from the garden...  

Look into her eyes..deeply... Touch her passionately...  With reverence for the beauty she is.   

As you enter her...the sweetness will be so sweet it is indescribable..be tender but with authority..for it is that authority of the masculine that she yearns to surrender to.  

She will invite you in deeper..her kundalini on fire..it will entice you to go deeper and deeper still...  This is where man can distrust...fear the loss of his identity, his death..  He might want to take control and take this power for his pleasure alone.    Her snake will start to awaken...her body will move and undulate...enticing you to let go to her will...let the snake take you!   If you trust and let go to this..the sweetness you first tasted will seem distant in comparison.

If you are unable to take this..then that is ok... But in your withdraw, you also leave the feminine high on a precipice ...the energy will hurt in her belly...in her womb...and sadness..grief may rise in your women...hold her tight.. Place your hand gently on her belly and yoni...reassure her of your love still...she needs to know you love.

Make sure she is grounded and calm before you leave her energetically..don't roll over...don't fall asleep until you are sure she is ok..grounded and still..  Honour that opening within her...her shakti power.  It is this that you truly love...

X

Autumn releases ready for the new!

Ok..here we go!  Haven't blogged for a while again, there's been lots happening!

It's autumn and repeating the pattern of the last few autumns, another relationship has ended at this time of year.  Without wishing to get too much into what that may mean..I don't need to.. What I did see today as I stood underneath some trees..is that the trees at this time of year show me how they let go of their leaves so easily...  At just the right moment, the tree releases a leaf and the leaf lets go and falls to the earth gracefully.  Their time of growing together done..their purpose complete.  They know that death is just another step into the new...that will come soon inevitably.  A huge reminder from that Oak Tree today!

The 'story' doesn't matter...what matters is how I am with it..the ending may appear the same but its the journey and the experience of it that is different.  i am a different woman this autumn to the last autumn,and the one before that...ever evolving.

That is not to say that I haven't gone into the drama of it..ranted and raged, disbelief, hurt and betrayal..in fact this time,  i fully embraced Kali energy and gave him what for!  It felt good to show the masculine to his face my rage and I did it for me..whatever he thought of my mad dance didnt matter!  I have nothing but love and compassion for this man who is aware of what life is asking of him but cannot find a way through the fog to move forward and transform.    

This autumn, the feeling under that Kali rage was a rumbling underneath, like a volcano about to erupt, of newness..of something far bigger and better coming in.  I noticed my anticipation of what is coming my way and there was a joy in that.

Although I have done this on different levels before, I once again thank all my exes, in fact everyone that has come and gone from my life... But particularly intimate relationships..as they have sharpened my awareness of who I really am...and creating anew.  With the law of attraction theory, they have shown me what i do and don't want, clarifying what i wish to attract..ever evolving... causing  me to create a relationship that I have not yet lived...but it is coming..I know it.

People don't tend to leave us because we were not lovely, great to be with as most of us are..   But they go when the vibrations no longer match...no more room for expansion..or one or other cannot live what they know to be true causing a gap... it doesn't matter..what you came together to do is done...now it's time to let go like the trees and the leaves!    They know spring is around the corner!

 

In the meantime..I am so inspired to take action on my purpose...the couple of projects that I have 'waited' to start...  I am sick of being in the 'waiting room'..waiting to be altogether myself, waiting for the confidence to get out there, waiting for good or better health....waiting..waiting...waiting..   The time of peace, sitting down in meditation 'om'ing and being, stillness, oneness, bla bla... is done for all of us!  Yes that is all important BUT it is now Time for moving forward, creating something..to inspire as many people as possible..  that will take action - a movement from that stillness!  

I am a gorgeous, sensual and powerful, loving woman.   :)

It will take a powerful, deep deliberate and masculine man to keep up with me..when I meet him I will know!    :)

Namaste.

X

Rant..about RP to Happiness Jars!

A whirlwind of emotions...pain..tears...   Thursday, I thought I was going mad...actually insane....

It started with the doctors.  A meeting to discuss the latest hospital visit..to get me to go on blood pressure tablets and to discuss me not taking my aspirin that I have been prescribed...oh and to push the flu jab!  

After discussion, I asked him to tell me what he would prescribe for bp..and he went through the list and discounted them all due to the mtx and my rp symptoms!  He was going to have to write back to the hospital for advice. Although I ididnt want any more tablets to take..I felt my energy drop... Everything is so difficult..I started to cry,,I was so fed up of being in this situation..it didn't seem fair.  The doctor was surprised. He has usually commented on how positive I was..and tried to boost me up a bit.  What he said was..if you had all this 50 years ago..you would be dead!   Hmmm!

After that I saw the nurse for my regular blood test check...I have not been too good with these recently..very fainty..so was prepared with fizzy drink and chocolate bar for distraction!  :). The nurse was great, it didn't hurt,,not a problem..she put a plaster on..but I caught sight of the fact it wasn't stopping bleeding.  Ugh going funny now again!  Lol. To cut the story short and so I dont faint now.. I went fainty again..couldn't leave the doctors for a while to recover!  The irony is I am supposed to be taking aspirin to thin my blood !

Odd day after that,,I didn't speak to anyone..no phone calls, no one on Facebook...weather was dreary and dark.  I pottered, meditated and wrote more of my book.  (Yes finally writing a book of my journey!) then it was tea time.

I began preparing the food...and suddenly I went cold and just lost it.  I had a knife and just slammed it on the floor...it shattered. I paced the lounge, crying, and ranting...my dog was whimpering and pacing with me.  I said to myself..you are on the verge of losing it...completely going mad.  The thing was I knew this wasn't me..I could see myself  and hear myself as if I was watching a play.  My body was so cold and shaking...and then the cottage walls seemed to be closing in..I got scared.  I sat myself in the corner..sobbing.  I did call a friend to help...she came with hot water bottle, rescue remedy and calmed me..

We talked of how we are independent women, appearing strong and warrior like..taking everything thrown at us in life...being positive etc.  and yet just every now and then, we lose it... We just want to give up...share the load...just occasionally.  And yet there seems to be so many women out there on their own..dealing with some big stuff in their lives.  There has got to be a higher purpose for this...I trust that.

I have no idea whether it was the doctors visit, energies, planets, writing about my past..clearing old emotions out or what...but a few hours later it felt like a huge weight had been taken off me.  I was exhausted and drained.

Yesterday/Today is a completely different day..positivity again...emails, telephone calls, texts, Facebook conversations, even a possibility of some work if I am able.. we will see.

I'll finish off with this idea..I came across it this morning and I think its a wonderful idea by the author, Elizabeth Gilbert! 

JAR OF HAPPINESS. She made a vow that every night she would write down the happiest moment of the day and save it forever.  She fills a jar with scraps of bills, mail, bits of paper with something written on them, sea shells etc  

It takes 10 seconds to preserve the simplest and happiest moments...so join me in getting a jar, decorating it and filling it with JOY!  :)  

Namaste!

XX

Hospital visits..Stupa blessings..

A while since I last blogged...life has been full with much learning.   I am sure we have all experienced the massive transformations and changes occurring in our lives, as though the universe is conspiring to force the unclear to become clear, the unreal to become real...faster and faster. No let up.  I have such compassion for everyone who is experiencing the pressure of this.

I went to hospital yesterday..and it wasn't great news.  I have felt that My breathing had deteriorated over the last couple of months and the tests yesterday did confirm that things are not as good as they were after my surgery in march.  There was always the chance that my windpipe would become narrow again..many rp patients have to have many surgeries.. But I kinda hoped that this would not be in my case.  

It is hoped that this is due to scarring from surgery..which was likely to happen..but if it is inflammation, then it is likely that we haven't got the rp under control through medications.  So awaiting an appointment for a camera to be put down to have a look.  In the meantime, I increase my meds, revamp my diet, my lifestyle and no more stress.

Haven't I surrendered...haven't I learned what I have to learn through this thing..obviously not!  

I woke up this morning scared...scared and feeling alone...  Tears have come, gone, come again..  I feel I need to not show this to my parents, I don't want them to worry..they have such faith in medicine, they just want to believe that all will be well..just need to find the right medicine.    Not wishing to put pressure on my beloved who is going through his eye of the needle at this time....  Or burdening the many friends who support me so wonderfully in any case..

Independent, self sufficient, strong apparently?  I don't feel those right now..I want to be held, have my hair stroked, and soothed with words and love...this feels unjust..but it helps to write the emotions out...so thank you, the reader for listening!  :)   You know what I hear in my room right now...  the tapping of the deathwatch beatle! (superstition as it that it fortells death)   Perfection!

After hospital, we went to see the peace pagoda in battersea park..  It's a place I have gone to only a few times before...and it's always been a 'significant' meeting with the Buddhas...and always with someone important in my life next to me.

I sat there facing one of the Buddhas and remembered the times before when I had had some breakthrough, or realisation about life, some profound experience...and then I beat myself up as I felt I had failed to bring any of them into reality..not achieved my purpose etc...going round in circles bla bla bla..

Of course that is not the case, I know that...and through the tears yesterday, was the laughter at the cosmic joke...that life always steers us on the right path...regardless of the seeming choices we make.  We skirt around, take the bends and twists in life but it seems the universe always manages to steer us in the right direction somehow.  How much control do we really have?  Not a lot!   Look back and you will see....for a while there..you think you had a choice...but did you?

Life truly is amazing...   Why oh why do we take it so seriously... Jumping on and off the roller coaster..getting all tangled up... Ugh.. I just shook myself!   

Let go..let go..let go...  Sit back and watch the play unfold....and listen to the deathwatch beatle foretell of pending death! 

Namaste.

X

p.s. if you are reading this on email...you are missing out on some lovely pics of the buddhas that are on the blog!

Heartfelt Thanks to our NHs...

Humbled and feeling so grateful for bring alive...for living the way I do...for being loved and supported the way I am....and for our British NHs system!

I was reminded early this morning that not everyone around the world is so privileged. Someone in the RP forum had written something about having a hoarse voice etc and questioning what it could be. In the middle of the night, I read this and wrote to them pleading with them to get it checked ASAP...in case this was their trachea being attacked. I was more concerned that I wasn't scaring them into action but still felt the need to encourage them to get it checked out.

When opening my virtual mail this morning, someone else in the group had mailed me to let me know that they had no health care insurance...I hadn't thought that this person was in America and possibly had no insurance. As soon as I read it, I gulped and cried at the injustice in this world, the imbalance between our people's. It was humbling to acknowledge that there was someone in the world probably dealing with the same illness and symptoms as I am but without the support of medical intervention, drugs or doctors. What becomes of people in that situation...how come I am in this position and they are in theirs? Deep questions about whether we choose our destiny, our life circumstances...to experience what we do in our human form.

In the tears there was also guilt creeping in...and my doubt that I deserve to be here, alive, experiencing what I do...that little voice inside me. However, I brought myself back to presence, lit the candle on my goddess altar and meditated to stillness again. Sending healing thoughts and love to all those around the world without proper healthcare. And thanking all those in the NHs, that work with dedication in their service to others.

For those of you reading this in Britain, let's remember how fortunate we are to have such a system looking after us. No, its not perfect but let's remember what others don't have...and not grumble about waiting times, hospital food, car park charging, gruff staff, the headlining mistakes that as humans, doctors make. My god....we could be experiencing far far worse...

Namaste
X

Blessed...Divine Masculine Presence..Home.

Well, feeling so so blessed..I have waited for so long for true man to fully meet me, to fully claim me, on all levels...to state that and for me to truly know energetically as well as physically that what he says is true..and authentic.

It takes my breath away...with the sweetness of sheer bliss that I touch in the depths..it lasts for eternity.. Just when I think i couldn't taste any sweeter, the nectar continues to pour and pour into my being, into my soul, my body, my mind...on every single level, in every cell...I am overcome.     

Every cell vibrates to such a high frequency where there is no ‘other’..

“I am home” .. he says..and in that moment, my heart opens more to LOVE..

Divine Masculine Presence...  Divine Presence..   humbled by his majesty.

Namaste

X 

This is a beautiful song by Nianell - listen to the words...  x

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